謙遜(=kenson) : How to sound more humble in Japanese!
:razz: 「マギー先生って本当に頭がいいですよね。」
(=Maggie sensei tte hontou ni atama ga ii desu yone!)
“Miss Maggie, I think you are really smart.”
「いいえ、私なんてまだまだです。アインシュタインに比べたら…」
(=Iie watashinante madamada desu. Ainshutain ni kurabetara…)
“No way! Far from it. I mean, compared to Einstein….”
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Today’s lesson is about “being modest or humble”.
It is called 「謙遜する」 (=kenson suru) in Japanese.
When you talk to someone, you have to refer to yourself as being at a much lower level［=控えめに(=hikaemeni) to be modest］than your actual ability or value.
From the picture above:
:razz: 「マギー先生って本当に頭がいいですよね。」
(=Maggie sensei tte hontou ni atama ga ii desu yone!)
“Miss Maggie, I think you are really smart.”
「いいえ、私なんてまだまだです。アインシュタインに比べたら…」
(=Iie watashinante madamada desu. Ainshutain ni kurabetara…)
“No way! Far from it. I mean, compared to Einstein….”
It is a typical conversation. (except the “Einstein” part!!)
When someone gives you a compliment, you don’t suppose to say “That’s right! I am great! :o ” in Japan. Instead, you should say,
•そんなことありません (=Sonna koto arimasen.) That’s not true
•そんなことないです。(=Sonna koto nai desu.) That’s not true
•いいえ (=Iie) No,
•いえいえ(=Ieie) No, no…
•とんでもない(=Tondemo nai) No way! stronger
And you lower yourself
•私なんて(=Watashi nante) I am not that…
•まだまだです。(=Madamada desu.) I still have far to go.
Or sometimes you can compare to the person.
•お宅(様)に比べたらもう全然..(=Otaku(sama) ni kurabetara mou zenzen..)
Compared to your family, we are nothing like you…
•〜さんの足下にも及びません。(=~san no ashimoto ni mo oyobimasen.)
The literal meaning is “I can’t even reach to your foot. “– which means I am not in your league.
•〜とは比べものになりません。(=~san towa kurabemono ni narimasen.)
There is no comparison with you.
奥ゆかしい(=Okuyukashisa) modest, refined, reserved. 腰が低い(=Koshiga hikui) modest (腰(=koshi) is your waist, lower back. We tend to underestimate our ability or value in front of others. Some of the expressions are extreme. We don’t actually literally think what we say, but we say it just to be humble.
I want you to learn how Japanese people respond to each compliment in the following examples.
Also I hope it helps you to learn how to compliment others in Japanese.
1)「新しい家を買ったんですって？ご主人がんばりましたね。」
(=Atarashii ie wo kattan desutte? Goshujin ganbarimashita ne.)
“I’ve heard you bought a new house! Your husband must have worked so hard!
「大した家でないんですよ。猫の額ほどの庭がついてるだけで、もうローンが大変ですよ。」
(=Taishita ie de naindesu yo. Neko no hitai hodo no niwa ga tsuiteiru dake de, mou roon ga taihen desuyo.)
“No, it is not that great a house. It has a tiny garden, and now we have the burden of having to pay back a big loan!”
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Note : 猫の額(=neko no hitai), cat’s forehead →We use this expression to describe a small or narrow space
2)「お嬢さん、ご結婚が決まったそうですね。おめでとうございます。」
(=Ojou san gokekkon ga kimatta sou desune. Omedetou gozaimasu.)
“I’ve heard your daughter is going to get married. Congratulations!”
「有り難うございます。なかなか決まらなくって、やっと片付きました。」
(=Arigatou gozaimasu. Nakanaka kimaranakutte yatto katazukimashita.)
“Thank you so much. It took a long time finalize this. I can finally get rid of her.
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Note : 片付ける(=katazukeru), to straighten up, to get rid of, to clean up, is usually used for things.
Ex. 部屋を片付ける(=heya wo katazukeru ) to clean up a room
So it is OK to refer yourself or your family but avoid using it for someone else.
3)「いいお召し物ですね。」
(=Ii omeshimono desune.)
“You’ve dressed very nicely.” (You look nice in the clothes.)
「いいえ、大したものではありません。」
(=Iie taishita mono dewa arimasen.)
“Oh no, it’s nothing special.” (Not that expensive.)
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Note : お召し物(=omeshimono) an honorific way to refer someone’s clothes.
4)「お宅のお坊ちゃん、学校では大変お出来になるとお聞きしましたよ。」
(=Otaku no obocchan, gakkou dewa taihen odeki ni naru to okiki shimashita yo.)
“I’ve heard your son is an excellent student at school.”
「とんでもありません。出来が悪くて困ります。」
(=Tondemo arimasen. Deki ga waruku te komarimasu.)
“No way. I’m afraid he is terrible.”
5)「英検１級受かったんですって？すごいですねえ。」
(=Eiken ikkyu ukattan desu tte? Sugoi desu ne.)
“You have passed STEP 1st grade! That’s really something!”
「いえいえ、まだまだです。」
(=iie madamada desu.)
“Oh, I still have a long way to go.”
Note : 英検 =STEP test, English proficiency test in Japan. (STEP :Society for Testing English Proficiency)
6)「ご主人、昇進したんですって？よかったですね。」
(=Goshujin shoushin shitan desutte? Yokatta desune.)
“Your husband got promoted, right? I’m very happy for you.”
「いいえ～…肩書きだけですよ。お給料は何にも変わらないんですから…」
(=Iiee katagaki dake desuyo. Okyuuryou wa nanimo kawaranain desu kara…)
“Well… it is just a title. His salary won’t change at all so…”
7)「先日は、美味しいお土産をありがとうございました。」
(=Senjitsu wa oishii omiyage wo arigatougozaimashita.)
“Thank you so much for the delicious souvenir the other day.”
「いいえ、ちょっとばかりでごめんなさい。」
(=iie chotto bakari de gomennasai.)
“Oh, that was nothing.”
8)「お嬢さん、元気がいいですね。今が一番可愛い時ですね。」
(=Ojyousan genki ga iidesu ne. Imaga ichiban kawaii toki desune.)
“Your (little) daughter is very energetic! Isn’t this when they are cutest?”
「もう本当に手がかかって、目が離せませんよ。」
(=Mou hontou ni tega kakatte me ga hanasemasen.)
“Oh no, she is a handful. I always have to keep my eyes on her.”
9)「英語の発音がお上手ですね。」
(=Eigo no hatsuon ga ojouzu desu ne.)
“Your English pronunciation is great!”
「そんなことありません。全然だめです。まだ勉強しないと…」
(=Sonna koto arimasen. Zenzen dame desu. Mada benkyou shinaito)
“No way! Not at all! I still need to study more…”
10)「奥さん、いい車を買ったんですって？」
(=Okusan ii kuruma wo kattan desutte?)
“Your wife got a nice car, right?”
「いやあ〜、乗りもしないのに、もう何を考えてるんだか…」
(=Iyaaa nori mo shinai noni mou nani wo kangaeterundaka..)
“Well, she doesn’t even use a car so often. I have no idea what she is thinking about. “
11)「息子さん、本当に立派になられましたね。」
(=Musuko san hontou ni rippa ni nararemashita ne.)
“Your son has became admirable.” / “He has grown up.?”
「いえいえ、これからが大変ですよ。」
(=Ieie korekara ga taihen desuyo.)
“No…it is going to be tough from now.”
Note : 立派な(=rippana) valuable, respectable, admirable,
立派な人 (=rippana hito) a fine person.
12)「リカちゃん、綺麗になってお母様も鼻が高いですね。」
(=Rika-chan kirei ni natte okaasama mo hanaga takai desune.)
“Rika has became very pretty. You must be very proud of her as her mother.”
「いいえ、もうわがままで…」
(=Iie mou wagamama de…)
“Not at all. She is such a pain.”
Note : 鼻が高い(=hanaga takai) the literal meaning is “to have a high nose”. It means to be proud of someone.
わがまま/我が儘 (=wagamama) selfish, spoiled
13)「なんか、高そうなバッグ持ってるね。」
(=Nanka takasou na gaggu dane.) casual
“Hey, your bag looks very expensive!”
「そんなことないよ。安物だよ！」
(=Sonna koto naiyo. Yasumono dayo!) casual
“That’s not true. It’s very cheap!”
14)「お前んとこの妹って可愛いな。」
(=Omaen toko no imoutotte kawaiina.) casual (between boys)
“Your sis is cute!”
「んな、ことないよ、すっげえブスだよ。」
(=Nna koto naiyo. Suggee busu dayo…) casual and blunt (between boys.)
“What are you saying? She is very fugly.”
Note:
んな、ことないよ(=Nna koto naiyo.) very casual ←そんなことないです（=Sonna koto nai desu.) That’s not true.
すげえ(=sugee) or すっげえ(=suggee) are blunt form of すごい(=sugoi) very, great
Usually for boys but we sometimes hear girls use it as well.
15)「英語話せますか？」
(=Eigo hanasemasu ka?)
“Do you speak English?”
「いいえ、ちょっとだけ。」
(=Ie, chotto dake)
“Just a little!”
「いいえ、全然話せません。」
(=Iie, zenzden hanasemasen.)
“Oh no. Not at all!”
Note: Of course some people say this when they really can’t speak English.
「山田さんって本当に人間が出来ていますね。」
(=Yamada san tte hontou ni ningen ga dekite imasu ne.)
“Mr. Yamada, you are really a man of character!”
「いえ、私なんてまだまだ修行が足りません。」
(=Iie watashi nante madamada shugyou ga tarimasen.)
“Oh, no! I still have a long way to go.”
Note : 修行（=shugyou) training, apprenticeship, religious austerities
<What are you suppose to say if someone responds like that?>
And after hearing a humble response, they say:
•「ご謙遜を！」(=Gokenson wo)
“You are just trying to be modest” or “You are very humble!”
• 「またまたそんなことおっしゃって！」
(=Matamata sonna koto osshatte)
”Oh, you really don’t mean that! You are so humble!”
•「またまた〜！謙遜しちゃって！」(=Matamataaa Kenson shichatte!) casual
“Come on! You don’t mean that. You are so humble!”(jokingly)
Note : So… If someone says your house is big, you have to say “No, it is small!”. And if someone says something you own is beautiful, you have to say “It’s not so beautiful!” And you have to list negative reasons why you don’t think it is that great. If someone compliments your family, you also have to immediately deny it and try to find their faults and point them out in front of them.
Sounds like Japanese are a negative people, doesn’t it?
It is all formality. Even if we don’t hug, kiss, or use the endearments that Westerners use, we still love our family and respect them. We are very happy to be complimented and have someone acknowledge our achievements and ability. Some of you might think…
“I want to improve my Japanese but I don’t want to do that!” or “I really think I am great and my family is great and I am proud of them! Plus my house is biiiig!”
Don’t worry. You don’t need to be humble like Japanese but just don’t be too surprised when you hear the above mentioned conversation in Japan. I know Japanese people lack confidence, but we don’t necessarily think we suck that much!
<Other humble examples>
1) When we hand out a gift, we say,
•「これつまらないものですが、どうぞ！」 （=Kore tsumaranai mono deuga, douzo!)
“This is just a little thing but… here.”
•「これささやかですが、気持だけ…」 （=Kore sasayaka desuga, kimochi dake…)
“This is just a small token of my appreciation.”
•「全然、大したものではないのですが…」 （= Zenzen taishita mono dewa nai no desu ga…)
“It’s nothing fancy but…”
Note : Especially stores or companies hand out a small give away with a label,
粗品 (=soshina) a little gift (the literal meaning is a “ shabby gift“)
3) When you invite someone to your place,
•「何もありませんが、どうぞ」(=Nanimo arimasen ga douzo)
We don’t really have anything (to serve) but…
•「何のお構いもできませんがどうぞ」(=Nanno okamai mo dekimasen ga douzo)
We don’t really have anything worth serving you but…
•「汚いところですが、どうぞ」(=Kitanai tokoro desu ga douzo)
This place is a mess (literally: dirty) but…
•「狭い所ですが、どうぞ」(=Semai tokoro desu ga douzo)
Welcome to our humble abode.
•「どうぞ、散らかっていますが..」(=Douzo chirakatte imasu ga)
It is messy inside but…
＋遊びにいらして下さい。(=asobini irashite kudasai.)
Please come visit me/us! (When you invite someone to your house.)
＋お入り下さい。(=ohairi kudasai.) /お上がり下さい。(=Oagari kudasai.)
Please come in! (When you are welcoming a guest into your house.)
Note : お上がりください。(=oagari kudasai.)
When we take of our shoes at the 玄関(=genkan) entrance there is usually a step leading a house. That is why we say 家に上がる。(=Ie ni agaru)
A person who comes into other people’s homes is supposed to say,
•「それではちょっとだけ上がらせて頂きます。」(=Soredewa chottodake agarasete itadakimasu.)
Then let me come in just a little bit.
•「それではお邪魔します。」(=Soredewa ojama shimasu.)
Then allow me to come in.
4) When you serve food at your house,
•「お口に合うかどうかわかりませんが…」(=Okuchi ni au ka douka wakarimasen ga…)
“I’m not sure if this tastes all right with you but..”
Note : Poor food/simple food is called 粗食(=soshoku)
•「何もありませんが、どうぞ!」(=Nanimo arimasen ga douzo!)
“This is nothing special but please help yourself! “
(The literal meaning is “We don’t have any food, but please help yourself!)
When you serve tea,
•「粗茶ですが、どうぞ!」(=Socha desu ga douzo!)
“This is poor quality of tea but please help yourself.”
(→Of course they don’t really mean that the tea is of poor quality!)
5)When you see off your guests,
•「何もお構いできなくて…（すみません。）」（=Nanimo okamai dekinakute…(sumimasen))
“I am sorry that we didn’t serve you enough.”
You can say this even if you actually did serve “enough”.
If you just serve a cup of tea, you say
•お茶だけで申し訳ありません。
“I am sorry that all we served you was tea.”
And if you don’t even serve tea because it was a short visit, say,
•お茶も出さないで申し訳ございません。(=Ochamo dasanai de moushiwake gozaimasen.)
“I am sorry that we didn’t even serve you a cup of tea.”
6) When you offer someone help
•何のお役にも立てないかもしれませんが(=Nanno oyaku ni mo tatenai kamo shiremasennga..)
I may be useless but…
•お力になれるかわかりませんが..（=Ochikara ni nareru ka wakariamsenga..)
I am not sure if I could be a big help for you but
Please check more expressions in 労る(=Itawaru) caring experssion lesson
7) When someone asked you to do something or appoints you to a position and you accept it,
•こんな私でよければ/よろしければ(=Konna watashi de yokereba/yoroshikereba)
If you really think someone like me… (would be desirable then, yes I accept.)
Note : We also hear this when someone pops a question or go steady.
•（こんな）私（僕）でいいの？いいんですか？(=(Konna) watashi(boku) de iino?/ Iindesuka?)
Note: 私(=watashi) for women or men. 僕(=boku) is for men. いいの？(=Iino?) is casual
こんな(=konna) like this, such そんな(=sonna) like that, such あんな（=anna) like that, such
（When the distance from a speaker is close, we use こんな(=konna), when the distance is further, we use そんな(=sonna) and something far away from the speaker and listener is あんな(=anna).
When we use it with:
+ 人(=hito) person＋物(=hito) object
sometimes we use this pattern to refer to things or people we look down on or have a bad feeling about. HOWEVER, it is also used in the opposite direction — to refer to the speaker in a way that is self-deprecatory.
•まだまだ力不足ですが、お願い致します。(=Madamada chikara busoku desu ga onegai itashimasu.)
I am not good enough yet, but I would appreciate your support in advance.
•まだまだ勉強不足ですが、努力します。(=Madamada benkou busoku desuga , doryoku shimasu.)
“I still have much to learn, but I will do my best!”
8) Refering our family member,
unless you are a small child or are talking with your friends, you should refer to your own family members this way
•お父さん(=Otousan) father →父(=chichi)
•お母さん (=okaasan) mother →母(=haha)
•お兄さん (=oniisan)/お兄ちゃん(=oniichan) brother →兄(=ani)
•お姉さん (=onisan)/お姉ちゃん(=oneechan) sister →姉(=ane)
•叔父さん (=ojisan)/叔父ちゃん(=ojichan) uncle →叔父(=oji)
•叔母さん (=obasan)/叔母ちゃん(=obachan) aunt→叔母(=oba)
•おばあさん (=obaasan)／おばあちゃん(=obaachan) grandmother →祖母(=sobo)
•おじいさん (=ojiisan)/ おじいちゃん(=ojiichan) grandfather→祖父(=sofu)
In addition, your wife should be referred to as 妻(=tsuma)/家内(=kanai) and your husband as 主人(=shujin) or 夫(=otto)
Note : When you refer other people’s family member, you have to add 〜さん(=san) or〜様 (=sama) in the end.
Ex. (あなたの)お父様は… (=(Anata) no otousama wa…) Your father is…
Don’t call someone’s wife or husband as 妻／家内／夫 or 主人(=tsuma/kanai/otto or shujin)
Instead you have to call them 奥様(=Okusama)/奥さん(=Okusan) / 御主人様(=goshujin sama)/ 御主人（=goshujin)
These are very old fashioned expressions and we rarely use them in a daily conversation but for your information, we have these expressions as well.
•愚息(=gusoku) refers to your own son
•愚女 (=gujo) refers to your own daughter
•愚妻 (=gudai) refers to your own wife
•愚夫 (=gufu) refers to your own husband
愚(=gu) means 愚か(=oroka) which means “stupid“/”idiot“/and of course “moron“
What!? “Moron”??? It gets worse! Are you ready?
•豚息(=tonsoku) refers to your own son
•豚児 (=tonji) refers to your own child
豚(=ton) is from 豚(=buta) which means “pig” Oh my…
This is just the tip of the iceberg!
I will make a lesson about more 謙遜語(=Kensongo) or 謙譲語(=kenjou go) humble words some other time including verb forms.
マギー先生より(=Maggie sensei yori) From Maggie sensei yori
今、誰か私が、可愛くて、頭がよくって、性格もいいって言いましたか？
(=Ima, dareka watashiga kawaikute atamaga yokutte seikaku mo iitte iimashitaka?)
Someone has just said I am pretty, smart and have a nice personality?
いえいえ、それほどでも…(=Ieie, sorehodo demo…)
Oh no…I am not that great.
嬉し〜い！ (=Ureshiiiii!!) I am so happy!!!
やっぱり私は「褒められて育つ」タイプみたいです。 (=Yappari watashi wa “homerarete sodatsu” taipu mitai desu.)
I think I am the type of person who improves more the more they’re praised.
Note : 褒められて育つ／伸びるタイプ(=Homerarete sodatsu/nobiru taipu) We often bring up this phrase in daily conversation as a joke.
intransitive verb ↔ transitive verb
•育つ(=sodatsu) to grow ↔育てる(=sodateru) to raise
•伸びる(=nobiru) to improve ↔伸ばす(=nobasu) to help improve
•褒める(=homeru) to praise, to compliment ↔ 褒められる(=homerareru) to be praised/complimented
•褒められて育つ(=homerarete sodatsu) to grow by being praised
↔褒めて育てる(=homete sodateru) to raise or train someone by finding their good aspects and telling them.
•褒められて伸びる(=homerarete nobiru) to improve someone by being praised
↔褒めて伸ばす(=homete nobasu) to help improve someone by finding their good aspects and telling them.
Some people learn and grow or improve by being criticized strictly or having their faults pointed out to them.
On the contrary, 褒められて育つ(or 伸びる）タイプ(=Homerarete sodatsu/nobiru taipu) is the type of person (not just children but also athletes, students or people who work etc.) who can improve themselves by being praised.
So when someone gives you a compliment about your ability, we jokingly say
ありがとう！私、褒められて育つ(or 伸びる）タイプだから..
（=Arigatou! Watashi homerarete sodatsu(or nobiru) taipu dakara…)
Thank you! I am the type who improves the more they’re complimented!
14 Responses to “謙遜(=kenson) : How to sound more humble in Japanese!”
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MArik on May 22nd, 2011
One question,
I was under the impression that “yakubusoku” actually meant that you think your current task is “too easy” for you. Could you please clarify.
Here it seems to mean “maybe to hard for me but I will do my best” as in “yukitodokanu tokoro ga arimasu kamoshirenai goyousha no
hodo…”
Thanks!
Maggie on May 22nd, 2011
@MArik
You are absolutely right! I’m so sorry for the confusion. I deleted the line.
Aki on April 28th, 2011
yeah, Japanese are very humble so it was hard for me at first cause I always had to remember to say “いえいえ、そんなことじゃないよ＾＾；” when I was told I was cute or nicely dressed or that my Japanese is improving and all… always had to remember to be more 奥ゆかしい….
but you know sensei, now I have a reverse problem-now I talk like a Japanese when I m with the Western people here… hahaha it’s driving my friends nuts! when someone tells me “oh cute skirt” I m like “oh no it’s not that great…” and when people say “you look cute” I tend to say “oh no no no I am just average^^;” instead of saying “thank you!” or “I know right!” like “normal” people here do. So yeah some of my friends are wondering what’s wrong with me
oh well, しょうがないね～！and I think modesty can go long ways with people, especially when they don’t expect it ^^
Maggie on April 29th, 2011
@Aki
Your comments are always VERY interesting to read!
As we say,
能ある鷹は爪を隠す。=Nou aru taka wa tsume wo kakusu.) = A clever falcon hides his claws. =Still waters run deep./ He who knows most speaks least.
or
謙遜は美徳= kenson wa bitoku = modesty be a virtue
How do your friend usually react when you give them compliments?
Aki on April 29th, 2011
本当なの？I thought my comments were bothersome ^^; I tend to talk too much hehe I am quite, as Japanese would say, キャピキャピギャル＾～＾
so すみません for talking so much m(_ _)m
My friends reactions are something like this:
“You look cute today!”
“thank you! of course I do!” or “Oh yeah, m gonna make all the boys turn around” or “you know me^_~”(=something like of course I do…)
“Your skirt is cute!”
“I know! that’s why I bought it!” or “I figured it would look good on me so I bought it”
“Your kid is really cute/smart”
“Yeah I know right! He/she is the cutest thing! He/she always does well in classes. She’s an excellent student./She is in sports, plays piano, does drama. He is the best in his class at (something).”なんとけなんとけ stuff along those lines^^
“Wow, your house is so nice!”
“I decorated it myself. I got good tastes so I figured I’d do it” or “Yeah my husband/son decorated it/built it. They are so talented and got a great taste when it comes to layouts. They did a great job”
and really, everybody replies like this… yes, I do agree that 謙遜は美徳 ^.^
but I am the annoying one here>.< cause of my answers…. o_o
Maggie, how would you say "patience is a virtue"?
Maggie on April 29th, 2011
@Aki
What are you saying? I always enjoy reading your comments!
Hahahaha!!! I love it!! Reading your friends reaction made me laugh so much. You are right. They are so different. Very confident and positive.
Showing how happy we are when we hear nice compliments is sort of important, huh? We should learn from them reactions.
“patience is a virtue”=忍耐（にんたい）は美徳（びとく）or 何事（なにごと）にも忍耐（にんたい）は必要（ひつよう）である。
LadySapphire on May 4th, 2010
敬語って、あたしにとって本当に複雑で紛らわしい（Confusing?)ですね。
そして、私の場合には普通の日本語さえもうよく使えません、
敬語のほうはもっと使えません、だから覚えにくいです…
（I can’t even use the usual Nihongo often、What more with Keigo…)
でもまだ習いたいです。
このサイトがあって、本当によかったです。
先生はすごい。 ＝）
Maggie on May 4th, 2010
LadySapphireさん
もう自然に丁寧な日本語使っていますよ！自信持って続けて下さいね。
LadySapphire on April 28th, 2010
今日はMaggie先生
又いろいろを習いました ＾＿＾
あのう、ちょっと質問がありますが、下の例文章について：
11)「息子さん、本当に立派になられましたね。」
”～になられました”の部分を、”～になりました”に使ってもいいかな？。。
あ、まず、どうして”～になられました”になりますか
（私の質問はちゃんと書けなかったかも。。ーI may not have worded my question properly..ごめんなさい）
又いいレッスンを教えてくれてあろがとう
Maggie on April 28th, 2010
LadySapphireさん
今日は！！！
”～になられましたね”の部分を、”～になりましたね”にしても大丈夫です。＜なられる＞の方が丁寧です。
「立派になられる」の基本形=「立派になる」
“なる”の敬語は受け身形の作り方と一緒の”なられる” また”おなりになる”という言い方もあります。
ただ”ご立派におなりになる”は二重敬語です。でもよく耳にします。
敬語は二重敬語とか”さ”入れ言葉や”れ”足す言葉などだんだん変化してきていますね。このサイトでは日常的によく使う表現を敢えていろいろ取り入れて紹介していきますね！
jeremy on April 4th, 2010
Yes, thanks!
jeremy on April 4th, 2010
In this sentence:
お前んとこの妹って可愛いな
What does んとこ mean? I don’t think I’ve seen that before.
Maggie on April 4th, 2010
jeremy-san
It is very very colloquial.
お前”んとこ”(=Omae n toko) is an abbreviation form of お前の”ところの” （ところ=所=tokoro=place) referring one’s family, place, home, company where ever you belong to.
あなたのところ(=Anata no tokoro)->more casual あんたのところ(=anna no tokoro) -> あんたんとこ(=antan toko) the place or group you belong to
あいつのところ(=aitsu no tokoro) -> あいつんとこ(=aitsuntoko) the place or group he belongs to
Also we use お前んちの(=Omaenchi) and it came from お前のうちの(=Omae no uchi no) うち=uchi=home and it refers your family or home.
Ex. お前んちのお父さんってどこで働いていたっけ？(=Omaenchi no otousan tet doko de hataraite itakke?) Where does your father work again?
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Japundit on April 1st, 2010
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